It can be difficult to have relationships, or to worry about people who do not feel worthy of themselves. Over time, loving someone who does not like them-self can get frustrating. If you love someone who does not love themselves, you will want to help them get started, because it is hard to watch someone you love suffer. It is difficult to love someone who does not love themselves, because someone who does not love themselves may come to depend on and burden you too much, but if you are willing to take the risk, once they see themselves as you do, it will be worth it.
If you are able to stand by someone who does not love themselves, that means you are a caring, protective person. If you do not love yourself – if you are critical and not accepting of yourself – then it is likely that you have trouble believing that others could truly accept and love you. When you accept and love yourself, you do not need the approval or love of others, and you are more likely to believe you will find people you love, and people who will love you. Where your love is never enough, no matter how much you love someone.
You are cast aside as a used pair of plastic gloves, left to face your low self-esteem, while they move on to the next person who feels they will love them enough. After a while, you may begin to feel that your efforts are being wasted; you are spending your time and effort trying to lift up your partner, and your partner who is slut-shaming is trying as hard to bring themselves or themselves down once more. As you might imagine, spending time and energy trying to get your loved one to smile, but never really getting anywhere, is exhausting. You need to know that you will feel at times as though you are wasting your time and your efforts are being wasted, but really, all you have to do is to be patient and consistent with your loved one, because no matter how difficult being in a relationship is with someone who does not love themselves, learning how to love yourself after all this time is even harder.
Communication can become a chore when you are in a relationship with someone who does not know how to love themselves. Communication can get hard if you are in a love affair with a person who does not love them-self, because they may read into what you are saying a little too much and assume the worst. When a person does not love themselves for who they are, they cannot see why others will love them. When you love someone, you want to tell them how incredible they are, but usually, a person who does not love themselves has trouble hearing the compliments.
Loving someones ideas, who they can become, never becomes the person they are, or who they can be in the future, if they choose to live a life of hurt and unhealthy behaviors.
